UNIQUE YOUTH AND SINGLES JANUARY 2023 EDITION

Date: 22/01/2023

MINISTERING: APOSTLE BOLATITO PRAISE

Balance talks about equality, fairness, no marginalization between two parties.

Balancing must be in the ratio of 50:50 and not otherwise.

The concept of Love means many things to different people.
For some people love is interpreted as care, attention, tolerance,.….etc.
Love should be selfless.
It must be the Agape kind of love

WAYS TO BALANCE THE LOVE

1. Priority (Matthew 6:33)
   ~God has to be put first in every relationship if you must get the best.
   ~Find a place in your heart for God where no one can have access to, where you alone can maintain and unbroken fellowship with Him always.
2. Understanding
   ~ You must understand that God is invincible and a spirit and should be related to in that capacity while your partner is visible and human. (Both shouldn’t be put in the same box.)
3. Assumption
   ~Don’t give room for assumption in your relationship.
   ~Don’t assume that he or she would knows what you haven’t thought the person.
   ~Always find time to Educate your partner.
   ~Spell out everything in details from the grassroot of the relationship. (The best time to start is when you just started)
4. Clarity
   ~learn to clarify things with your partner, always make sure they follow through.
   ~Ensure that both of you are on the same page.
5. Communication
   They must be an effective communication to have the best of a relationship.
   ~Talking alone is not enough, but you must master the art of communication, know when to, how to and even where to communicate all of these matters.
   ~ Communication must be a two way thing, it shouldn’t be one-sided
6. Be open for corrections
7. Adjust to Amend.
   ~Make room for compromise in your relationship.
   ~Don’t be adamant.
   ~Be ready to learn, unlearn and relearn.
   ~When the need arises, be ready to adjust and amend in every area, don’t do only one and leave the other.
   ~Adjust and Amend, in your finance, dressing, food, talking,…. etc.

~For any relationship that would stand the test of time, God must be put first.

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